Having a unique talent can open many doors in life, but for some, it can also lead to difficult experiences growing up. This was the case for Tiffany Mulder, a talented violinist who had been honing her craft since middle school. While her violin skills set her apart, it also made her the target of bullying during her childhood. Little did she know, years later, she would get a chance to turn the tables on one of her former bullies.
Tiffany, now an accomplished and sought-after violinist, was busy with a successful career, performing at high-end weddings and events. One day, out of nowhere, she received a surprising message from none other than her childhood bully. The woman reached out to Tiffany, not to apologize for the past, but with a bold request.
“Hello there! Long time no see,” the former bully began, trying to reconnect as if they were old friends. “I’m getting married in October and I’d love for you to play the violin at my ceremony. It would be such a great gift, and you could even use the photos and videos to showcase your talent! It’s a win-win!”
The bully assumed that Tiffany would jump at the opportunity to perform for free, thinking that she would be eager to expand her portfolio. But what she didn’t know was that Tiffany was already an established name in the industry. She didn’t need any favors or exposure. In fact, she had been recognized by prestigious wedding platforms like The Knot and Wedding Wire for six consecutive years.
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Tiffany’s Response
Instead of reacting with anger, Tiffany decided to respond with grace and a touch of well-deserved revenge. She replied, “Hi there! It’s quite presumptuous of you to expect a $2,500 service as a gift. You used to bully me a lot back in middle school for being in the orchestra. And as for building my portfolio, you might not know that I’ve been acknowledged by The Knot and Wedding Wire for six consecutive years.”
Tiffany continued, reminding her former bully that she had been working professionally in the wedding industry since she was 12 years old and had built her career over nearly two decades. The message was clear—Tiffany wasn’t interested in performing for free, nor did she need any help from her past tormentor.
The Bride’s Persistence
Despite Tiffany’s straightforward response, the bride-to-be wasn’t satisfied. Instead of backing down, she criticized Tiffany’s prices, calling them too high. Yet, she continued to push for a discount, even suggesting that they could rekindle their “friendship.” Tiffany, however, saw right through the act and remained skeptical of her former bully’s intentions.
Politely but firmly, Tiffany declined the offer, explaining that she already had a solid circle of friends and didn’t need to deal with any negativity from the past. It was clear that she had moved on from those middle school days and had no interest in pretending otherwise.
The Bride’s Desperation
Not willing to give up, the bride made one final attempt to secure Tiffany’s services. She offered her $1,000 to play the violin during the slow dance at her wedding. But Tiffany wasn’t swayed by the offer. Instead, she decided to have a little fun with the situation.
Tiffany couldn’t resist mentioning that her old bully was getting married on Mean Girls Day. She turned down the $1000 offer and said no to working for exposure.
She jokingly proposed that her guests contribute five dollars each as an entertainment fee to help cover her expenses.
That is when she got her revenge.
She definitely brought that upon herself.
In a playful twist, Tiffany pointed out that the bride was getting married on “Mean Girls Day”—a perfect nod to their past. She rejected the $1,000 offer and stood firm in her decision not to work “for exposure.”
To top it off, Tiffany jokingly suggested that the bride ask her wedding guests to chip in five dollars each to help cover her entertainment fee. Of course, this was never a serious offer, but it was Tiffany’s way of making it clear that she wasn’t going to be taken advantage of.
Revenge Well Served
In the end, Tiffany got her revenge in the most satisfying way possible—by standing up for herself and maintaining her professionalism. She didn’t need to yell or hold a grudge. Instead, she simply let her success and self-respect speak for themselves. The bride, on the other hand, learned a valuable lesson about entitlement and the consequences of past actions.
Tiffany’s story is a reminder that success is the best revenge. She turned a negative experience from her childhood into a moment of empowerment. By refusing to let her former bully walk over her, Tiffany demonstrated the importance of knowing your worth—and never compromising it for anyone.
As for the bride, well, she certainly brought this situation upon herself.
